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Today: a manufacturing editor working in tech who makes $67,000 per yr and spends a few of her cash this week on a tarot deck.
Occupation: Production Editor
Industry: Tech/Publishing Startup
Location: Detroit, MI
Paycheck Amount (2x/month): $1,853
Gender Identity: Woman — She/Her
Rent: $750 (for a one-bedroom)
Student Loans: $425
Cooking Gas: $13 (all of my different utilities are included in my hire)
Renter’s Insurance: $20
Cell Phone: $30
Car Payment: $115
Gym Membership: $49
Health Insurance: $67 (My firm covers most of my insurance coverage, however my plan in Michigan is larger than it was in Massachusetts, so I pay the distinction; that is already subtracted from my paycheck.)
Netflix: $zero (I take advantage of my mother’s account.)
Spotify: $zero (My sister’s boyfriend pays for our shared “family” plan.)
Monthly Donation to the National Network of Abortion Funds: $6
Weekly Bouquet Service: $60 (I dwell very near an exquisite flower farm and deal with myself to weekly bouquets in the summertime.)
Roth IRA Deposit: $25
401(ok) Contribution: $245 (additionally already subtracted from my paycheck)
Savings: I attempt to sock away a minimum of $200 a month in financial savings. I set a purpose at the start of this yr to hit $10,000 — I am presently at $eight,000.
eight a.m. — I get up to birds chirping loudly outdoors the Bed-Stuy condominium I am staying at. I’ve been in New York for a piece convention for the previous week and spent the weekend visiting with pals in Brooklyn. It’s been a magical few days, however I am able to get again to Detroit for some peace and quiet (and cheaper brunch costs). I bathe and prepare, and my pals make me chilly brew and scrambled eggs.
9 a.m. — I hug my pals goodbye and seize a Lyft to the airport. I select a Shared Lyft and share my journey with two women heading to Governors Ball. Rain is threatening, and they’re hoping the competition will not be canceled. (I Google later and discover out that it was evacuated on account of extreme climate — hopefully, they managed to see a number of acts!) My Lyft driver is form, performs good music, and drives nicely, so I be certain to tip. I’ve a whole lot of respect for anybody who can navigate NYC visitors and maintain a smile on their face. ($25.10 expensed)
9:40 a.m. — I make it to LaGuardia and breeze by way of safety due to my TSA Precheck (greatest buy I ever made), solely to search out out that my flight has been delayed by two hours. I additionally uncover that my gate is down a steep flight of stairs that lead right into a small, scorching ready room, outdoors of which is a shuttle bus that can allegedly take us to our aircraft. I consolation myself with a tall caramel Frappuccino from Starbucks (inferior to I bear in mind it being) and an authentic Auntie Anne’s pretzel (simply nearly as good as I bear in mind). $10.76
three:30 p.m. — I lastly make it residence, and my angelic mother picks me up on the airport. I persuade her to swing by Taco Bell on the way in which again to her home, the place I order my fave combo: two rooster chalupas and a root beer (and loads of hot-sauce packets). My brother and his girlfriend await us at my mother’s home. My dad has early-onset Alzheimer’s, and my mother is his full-time caregiver, so my brother has been hanging out with my dad whereas my mother fetched me from the airport. $9.74
9 p.m. — I am too drained to drive residence, so I spend the evening at my mother’s home. I browse Depop for a bit earlier than falling asleep. I’ve made a dedication to myself to buy extra ethically and sustainably this yr, and since choices for cute, moral trend begin to dry up previous a measurement 12, thrifting/secondhand is mostly my transfer. I am looking out for a swimsuit cover-up proper now. Lo and behold, proper earlier than I am about to name it an evening, I bump into the right one (black, sheer-ish, button-down, sufficiently big to be oversize on my measurement 18 bod, and low cost!). I purchase it and drift off into desires about strawberry daiquiris and seaside chairs. $13
9 a.m. — I get up a bit later than common, however reduce myself some slack since I am nonetheless worn out by my journey. My mother brings me espresso with a splash of sugar-free French vanilla Coffee-Mate. I seize my laptop computer and hop on-line. I work remotely for a Boston-based firm — I moved again to Michigan final yr to be close to my household as my dad’s Alzheimer’s worsens. Working remotely is tremendous handy, notably because it means I can work from my mother’s home every time I have to. Before getting all the way down to enterprise, I pay a invoice to my physician’s workplace for lab work I needed to get completed a number of weeks in the past and browse an article on Bon Appétit about what your restaurant tote bag says about you. I am tempted by a number of of them (I am a tote maniac), however I resist. $14.89
11 a.m. — I have been in a piece groove, however my abdomen is beginning to complain, so I take a break to make myself scrambled eggs with cheddar cheese and cherry tomatoes.
1 p.m. — After calling in to a protracted work assembly, I eat some strawberries, collect up my stuff, and reap the benefits of my lunch break to make the fast drive again to my condominium. It’s excellent to be residence — I verify my mail (all junk), water my crops (flourishing!), and have lunch: cottage cheese, carrots, and leftover rice. My meals should not often this miserable, however my fridge is almost empty after every week away from residence. I positively want to search out time to grocery store this week.
7 p.m. — I am a member at an area for ladies and nonbinary writers and artists in Detroit, and the School for Poetic Computation is holding a workshop there tonight. It’s fascinating and a whole lot of enjoyable, and I meet some very cool folks. Afterward, I meet up with a number of pals for dinner, the place we luck out and arrive proper in time for the late-night happy-hour menu. I’ve a burger, fries, and the restaurant’s house-made shrub. Lately one drink is sufficient to give me a hangover, so I have been looking for attention-grabbing non-alcoholic choices. Shrub, or consuming vinegar, is a favourite. $17.84
Daily Total: $32.73
eight a.m. — I remembered to activate my sleep tracker final evening (I take advantage of the Pillow app — my want for high quality sleep has outweighed any worries about corporations having my knowledge), so the very first thing I do once I get up is verify it. It tells me I bought a strong eight hours and 18 minutes of sleep at 75% high quality (no matter meaning). A victory! I do the naked minimal to look presentable and head out. I would like to choose up a prescription at CVS, and I parked too near a cease signal final evening and wish to transfer my automobile earlier than I get a ticket. It’s an attractive day, and I am completely satisfied to get some solar earlier than I am glued to my laptop computer for the day. I choose up my contraception, bathroom paper, mouthwash, deodorant, and my holy grail product for misbehaving pores and skin: Peach Slices Acne Spot Dots. $18.61
9 a.m. — I get on-line and begin making breakfast and occasional. I take advantage of espresso beans from Astro Coffee (a neighborhood store) and make poached eggs with sourdough toast. I scarf down my meal, flip up Jamila Woods, and get to work.
11:30 a.m. — I obtain two items of thrilling information: Roxane Gay goes to be the keynote speaker for a summit I am attending in September, and my greatest pal from faculty is engaged! I am thrilled. Her girlfriend (fiancée!!) is wonderful, and I do know they have been interested by taking this step for some time. I purchase a cute “Congrats on your engagement” card on Etsy. $eight
1 p.m. — I take a fast break to stroll to the flower farm the place I get my weekly bouquet. It’s a stunning stroll, and the flowers are stunning. I choose my bunch from the buckets on the farmer’s entrance porch and head again residence. A weekly flower service is a little bit of an extravagance, nevertheless it actually brightens each my condominium and my temper to have contemporary flowers round. Afterward, I eat a late lunch (a tuna sandwich with celery and some blueberries) after which head again to my mother’s home. She has a physician’s appointment and a haircut scheduled, so I am hanging with my dad whereas I end my work for the day. He’s nonetheless sleeping, so I decide on the sofa and get again to my lengthy to-do record.
four p.m. — My dad wakes up, so I feed him some clementines and have one myself. I activate the Rolling Stones, certainly one of his favorites.
6 p.m. — I’m going offline for the day, depart my mother’s, and head to the grocery retailer. I purchase rooster noodle soup, clementines, Häagen-Dazs espresso ice cream, milk, eggs, butter, espresso creamer, a frozen pizza, shredded sharp cheddar cheese, canned corn, frozen broccoli, cucumbers, romaine lettuce, cavatappi pasta, couscous, a loaf of wheat bread, peanut butter, cottage cheese, croutons, and cherries. $63.11
7:30 p.m. — I begin making ready dinner whereas listening to Spotify’s “This Is Joni Mitchell” playlist. I make gnocchi from the farmer’s market with marinara sauce and Parmesan, together with a salad of Romaine lettuce, cucumbers, croutons, beets, and selfmade Italian dressing. To my delight, past-me impulse purchased a mini cheesecake final week, so I’ve that for dessert. After dinner I placed on a face masks (Detroit Rose Honey Bunz — regionally made and essentially the most delicious-smelling masks on the planet) and browse a guide ( Pleasure Activism by adrienne maree brown).
Daily Total: $89.72
eight:30 a.m. — My alarm goes off, however I hit snooze till 9. I drag myself off the bed, wash my face, and open my laptop computer. Sometimes my best hours are very first thing within the morning, so I am going to work a bit earlier than consuming breakfast. I positively want espresso, although, so I get my Chemex going.
11 a.m. — I’ve had an extremely productive morning. I take a break and have scrambled eggs with cheddar cheese, the final of my sourdough toast, and some of the cherries I purchased yesterday.
2 p.m. — I am nonetheless full from breakfast, so I take advantage of my lunch hour to go to the gymnasium. I am obsessive about my gymnasium, which is uncommon for me — I am typically pretty anti-gym due to all of the body-shaming and weight reduction/eating regimen speak that typically comes together with it. This one performs Motown music all day, and everyone seems to be form, enthusiastic, and simply attempting to have time and transfer their physique. Bonus: There’s a steam room and a sauna within the locker room. I get in a fast exercise, take a bathe, and head residence.
three p.m. — I eat a late lunch at my desk: a peanut butter sandwich, a salad (Romaine, cucumbers, croutons, Italian dressing), and extra cherries.
6 p.m. — I log off for the day and head to the group backyard in my neighborhood, the place I volunteer each different Wednesday. The rain stops simply in time for us to weed and plant a bit. We harvest kale, spinach, lettuce, and radishes to take residence. The lady who lives in one of many homes subsequent to the backyard lets us snip a number of blooms from the large peony bush in her yard. I stroll residence with my haul, making it again proper earlier than the subsequent bout of rain comes.
eight p.m. — I wash my veggies and start dinner. Tonight I am having a simple model of cacio e pepe: linguine, butter, black pepper, and Parmesan. I sauté my freshly harvested kale with olive oil, garlic, salt, pepper, and crimson pepper flakes and have that alongside the pasta.
9:30 p.m. — I speak with my sister on the telephone for some time. She lives in Montreal, and I do not get to see her as usually as I might like, so it is at all times good to the touch base. She sends me a recipe for chilly brew, nevertheless it’s in French — she at all times overestimates my language abilities. Luckily, the steps are pretty easy, so I puzzle by way of and put together it whereas we speak. After we cling up, I handle my skin-care biz, learn a bit, after which hit the hay.
Daily Total: $zero
eight:30 a.m. — Today I make scrambled eggs with my backyard spinach for breakfast. I’ve by no means appreciated spinach, however I give it one other shot. I add saffron salt, pepper, and garlic powder to the eggs. I take one chunk with the spinach and find yourself totally consuming round it. At least I attempted! I wash my breakfast dishes, put together my chilly brew, and begin working.
10:30 a.m. — I have been borrowing a pair of gloves on the backyard for the previous few weeks and I believe it is time I get my very own. I hate utilizing Amazon, however I’ve some cash left on a present card, so I take advantage of it to purchase a pair. The remaining steadiness nearly covers the entire buy. $zero.41
12:30 p.m. — I am feeling lazy so I’ve my frozen pizza for lunch. I am not anticipating a lot nevertheless it’s fairly good — it is the Sicilian Recipe Crispy Thin Crust Pizza from California Pizza Kitchen. I eat about half and put the remainder within the fridge. I’ve two clementines and a few cherries for dessert.
1:30 p.m. — I would like a change of surroundings, so I bathe, placed on some make-up (Glossier Boy Brow in Brown and A’PIEU Juicy-Pang Water Blusher in Guava), develop into one thing cuter than my work-from-home flannel, and head to my co-working house. It prices $50/month to be a member, however my firm reimburses me for it. Working remotely might be isolating and lonely, so I actually admire having the ability to get out and work round different folks. My workplace in Boston was tremendous social and I am engaged on discovering methods to switch that interplay in my work days. Once I get to the house, I circle the block for a bit on the lookout for free parking, however ultimately quit and pay the charge. $2.15
1:45 p.m. — It seems that there’s intense building occurring subsequent door, inflicting a ruckus that I can not drown out with my headphones. I resign myself to the misplaced parking price and head to a espresso store throughout city that has free wifi. I get an iced cardamom chai latte and settle in. $5.25
5 p.m. — I give up working and drive residence. I drop my laptop computer off after which head out once more to stroll my bike over to the bike/espresso store in my neighborhood that opened a number of months in the past. The tires are extraordinarily flat and the bike itself in all probability wants some TLC. I do know the man on the store is up-selling me, however I comply with a tune-up and new tires. Detroit roads are stuffed with potholes and occasional particles, so the brand new tires will hopefully serve me nicely. He tells me it’s going to be prepared by subsequent week. I stroll again to my condominium, making pals with a stray cat on my manner. $200
6 p.m. — I am again out the door, headed to the gymnasium for a 6:30 Zumba class.
7:45 p.m. — I get residence, bathe, and eat the remainder of my pizza and a salad for dinner.
10:45 p.m. — I prepare for mattress after which scroll by way of Instagram. Before the focused advertisements can persuade me to purchase an antibacterial pillowcase, I shut the app. Unfortunately, I get sucked again into Depop as a substitute, and find yourself shopping for an previous tarot deck (oops). $5
Daily Total: $212.81
eight a.m. — I meet with my therapist on Friday mornings. I get up, bathe/prepare, and head out. On my manner there I hearken to the audiobook I simply borrowed from the library: If Beale Street Could Talk by James Baldwin. As I strategy the workplace I get a textual content from my therapist letting me know she’ll be 10 minutes late, so I cease at Starbucks to kill a while and get a Grande Vanilla Sweet Cream Cold Brew. $four.19
10:30 a.m. — On my manner residence, I choose up a loaf of sourdough from a neighborhood natural grocery retailer ($7.99) and a bagel sandwich from the fantastic bagel store close by as a reward for a tough, however fruitful remedy session. My go-to order: bacon, egg, cheese, and tomato on a Rosemary Olive Oil & Sea Salt bagel, toasted ($7.50). $15.49
2 p.m. — After working for some time I break for lunch: rooster noodle soup and a salad. I do know it looks as if I am obsessive about salads, however dwelling alone makes it arduous to get by way of produce earlier than it goes dangerous and I wish to be certain I get to get pleasure from all of my lettuce from the backyard.
5:30 p.m. — I cease working and head to my mother’s. I wish to choose up my yoga mat from her home and likewise purchase her dinner. She is not presently working since she’s my dad’s caregiver, which implies she’s on a really restricted earnings. My brother and I used to provide her $300 every a month, however her funds are a bit extra steady today. Now that I am dwelling near residence, I nonetheless like to have the ability to deal with her once I can. Her favourite restaurant is a Mexican place down the street the place we at all times order the identical factor: bean and cheese enchiladas for her, the identical for my dad, floor beef and cheese tacos for me, and chips and salsa. $31
eight p.m. — I depart for residence earlier than it will get darkish. I at all times sleep higher in my very own mattress. Before calling it an evening I activate Netflix for a bit (I am rewatching Salt Fat Acid Heat — I’ve an enormous crush on Samin Nosrat).
Daily Total: $50.68
eight a.m. — I make myself breakfast tacos and have some chilly brew. My grandpa’s 90th party is that this afternoon, so I hurry to prepare and depart for my mother’s. My sister and her boyfriend are visiting and we’re all going to drive over to my grandpa’s home collectively.
10:30 a.m. — Everyone’s working round frantically preparing so I’m going seize us espresso to keep away from the chaos. Tall soy latte for my sister, grande chilly brew for my sister’s boyfriend, tall Pike Place Roast for my mother, grande Vanilla Sweet Cream Cold Brew for me. $13.89
1 p.m. — We make it out the door and drive to my grandpa’s home. When we arrive we assist arrange for the celebration, and visitors begin to roll in round 1:30. I seize a lemonade and eat some veggies and dip whereas attempting to keep away from interactions with bizarre second cousins.
2:30 p.m. — We eat an enormous lunch: fried rooster, antipasto salad, coleslaw, pickles, buttered rolls, watermelon. We toast my grandpa, a number of folks give speeches, somebody performs the bagpipes (that is actually baffling — my household is Irish, not Scottish), and we’ve got vanilla cake and selfmade baklava for dessert. I proceed to gracefully keep away from the second cousins whereas scarfing baklava.
eight p.m. — My fam heads again residence. We hang around and chat for the remainder of the night and I eat some leftover fried rooster earlier than driving again to my condominium.
Daily Total: $13.89
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