The different day I requested somebody, “How are you doing?”
She replied, “Things are actually pretty not terrible,” after which she laughed.
“Sometimes the best you can hope for is pretty not terrible,” she mentioned.
I laughed too, nodding in settlement.
Later, I puzzled if that is actually true. Is “actually pretty not terrible” the BEST you’ll be able to hope for?
This particular person has been going by some household difficulties that do not seem to have a particular fortunately ever after, at the very least not on the close to horizon.
So, to her, “actually pretty not terrible” is definitely a cause to have fun.
And possibly that is factor, to have fun extra of the not-terrible moments and the simply plain peculiar moments in addition to the fortunately ever afters.
It’s been some time since I have been to a Weight Watchers assembly — so lengthy that it is now known as WW. But what I used to like about the conferences is how everybody celebrated even a ¼-pound weight reduction.
You might have 100 extra kilos to lose to achieve your objective, however everybody at your assembly claps for you while you increase your hand and say, “I lost ¼ of a pound.”
And if you happen to say, “I ONLY lost 1/4 of a pound,” somebody will level out that it is not “only,” that it is progress and an precise cause to have fun.
Here’s my commentary: In life, all of us have a “big ask” of God — “Please heal my child” or “Please end world hunger.”
We pray, we wait in expectation. We know that finally all issues shall be restored and made new in eternity.
We know we’re not assured our huge asks shall be answered subsequent week or ever right here on Earth.
So, we proceed praying, however we do not despair once we do not see our solutions straight away.
We do, nonetheless, have fun what we do see.
We have fun the truly pretty not horrible and the on a regular basis and the peculiar, as a result of God is there with us. God is perpetually working in our midst and on our behalf.
Just this morning I discovered an outdated electronic mail from the one I name my uncle dad. In it he wrote: “You said that you’re tired of believing that God’s ‘gonna do’ stuff. Nancy! God isn’t ‘gonna’ do — he IS doing. He’s just not done yet. So, go eat some ice cream.”
God created the Grand Canyon, the Great Barrier Reef and the big humpback whales that carry out acrobatics, leaping out of the water and spinning in the air as they migrate alongside the Pacific coast.
But he additionally created goldfish and bananas and slugs.
Jesus healed the blind and the lame. He fed crowds of hundreds and raised individuals from the useless.
He additionally roasted fish for breakfast for a couple of associates.
Whether huge and grand, peculiar and on a regular basis, and even the ‘truly pretty not horrible,” God is there, in our midst, stuffed with care and kindness, mercy and beauty for these he loves.
And that is truly a pretty good cause to have fun.
Nancy Kennedy is the creator of “Move Over, Victoria – I Know the Real Secret,” “Girl on a Swing,” and her latest book, “Lipstick Grace.” She may be reached at 352-564-2927 or through electronic mail at firstname.lastname@example.org.